Are Women More Spiritually Evolved Than Men?

As a doctor and a woman, I have often reflected on the unique qualities that women possess, both biologically and spiritually. While it’s true that women are often seen as inherently beautiful, mature, and emotionally intelligent, I want to emphasize that my conclusions are not rooted in bias but in observation and study.

I firmly believe in equal opportunities for both genders, and I want to make it clear that my statements are not intended to undermine men in any way. In fact, the men in my life—my father, and my husband—have been incredible role models and pillars of support for me, and I deeply respect them.

Social Reasons

We women play a significant role in shaping the perception of maturity and nurturing qualities. In many cultures, including those influenced by Sanathan Dharma, women are often seen as the embodiment of care, love, and wisdom. This is reflected in the way we refer to our country as "Mother Earth," our language as "Matru Bhasha," and even the deep trust we place in a mother's word. If a mother were to tell us one day that someone is or isn’t our father, we would believe her without question. This speaks to the inherent trust and authority that society places in women, particularly in matters of family and emotional intelligence.

The absence of women in certain negative scenarios, such as violent crimes or positions of power in criminal organizations, further reinforces this perception. For example, it's rare to hear of women committing acts like rape, being psychotic school shooters, or leading terrorist groups. While exceptions exist, these are overwhelmingly male-dominated behaviors. 

On the other hand, when we look at professions that require love, affection, and care—such as nursing, teaching, caregiving, and being nannies—women are almost always present. These roles align with the nurturing qualities that society often attributes to women, reinforcing the idea that they are more emotionally mature and capable of distinguishing between what is Maya (illusion) and what is real.

Biological Reasons

1. Nipples

Nipples in men primarily serve one function: sexual stimulation. In contrast, women's nipples have multiple purposes. Women's nipples are part of the breast, a modified structure that not only enhances their physical beauty but also plays a crucial role in providing nourishment to their offspring.

Beyond their aesthetic appeal, they serve a vital biological function by producing milk, which is the most natural and complete form of nutrition for a baby loaded with protective immunoglobulins. This dual role of the breast—enhancing beauty and providing essential nourishment—offers a unique advantage to women. This is why many women, even those from underprivileged backgrounds, are not afraid to embrace motherhood.

Despite lacking financial resources or a partner to provide for them, they are empowered by their ability to naturally nourish and care for their children through breastfeeding. 

2. Distribution of body hair 

Let’s look at hair on head when viewed through the lens of ancient Hindu beliefs and the concept of chakras. One of the most noticeable features and common for both genders is the abundance of hair on the top of the head, which is far more prominent compared to other parts of the body. This is not without purpose.

According to Hindu philosophy, the top of the head is where the Sahasrara chakra, or crown chakra, is located. The Sahasrara is considered the highest point of spiritual energy in the human body, often associated with enlightenment, consciousness, and the connection to the divine. The presence of hair on the head, particularly in this region, is believed to be nature’s way of protecting this vital energy center.

In ancient times, Hindu saints, sages, and even figures like Gautama Buddha were often depicted with long hair tied in a knot at the top of the head, commonly referred to as the rishi knot or jeera. This knot was believed to contain and safeguard the energy generated through the rising of Kundalini; the primal energy believed to reside at the base of the spine.

As the Kundalini ascends through the chakras during deep meditation or spiritual practice, the energy reaches the Sahasrara, and the knot serves as a protective mechanism to prevent any disturbance to this sacred energy flow.

This is why saints, who often meditated in nature under trees and in unsafe environments for extended periods, took extra care to protect this region. The hair on the head, particularly when knotted, acted as a natural shield for the Sahasrara chakra, ensuring that their spiritual practice and connection to the divine remained undisturbed.

Baldness

Men often experience baldness as they age, which can be seen as a natural process of change. While this may not directly affect their spiritual energy, it does have significant psychological and emotional consequences.

For many men, baldness becomes a source of insecurity, particularly in middle age. The loss of hair can lead to a decline in self-esteem, as hair is often associated with youth, vitality, and attractiveness. As a result, many men begin to lose interest in activities that once brought them pleasure, including sexual and romantic pursuits.

This shift in self-perception can extend to other areas of life, such as dressing up or engaging in self-care routines, further diminishing their confidence.

Changes in women during middle age

During middle age, women undergo significant changes, the most notable being the cessation of menstrual cycles, known as menopause. This marks the end of their reproductive years, meaning they can no longer conceive or bear children. While this transition signifies the natural conclusion of motherhood, it often does not negatively impact their appearance or confidence. In fact, many women find that entering this phase brings a renewed sense of freedom and vitality.

Menopause can be seen as nature’s way of allowing women to retire from the responsibilities of childbearing without diminishing their sense of self. Many middle-aged women embrace this stage with extra vigor, ready to take on new challenges in their personal and professional lives. The absence of concerns like contraception and menstrual cycles often brings a sense of relief and liberation.

Interestingly, many women in their forties report feeling as youthful and energetic as they did in their twenties, even as their male counterparts may appear more aged. This contrast in perception can be attributed to a combination of factors, including lifestyle choices, emotional resilience, and the newfound freedom that comes with this stage of life.

However, it’s important to note that post-menopausal symptoms can vary. Women who have had irregular menstrual cycles or have never been pregnant may experience more pronounced symptoms. These can include hot flashes, mood swings, sleep disturbances, and changes in bone density. While these symptoms can be challenging, they are a natural part of the transition and can be managed with proper medical care and lifestyle adjustments.

3. Determination of gender at birth

The most obvious way to determine gender at birth is by observing the external genitals. However, there are notable biological differences between men and women that go beyond just the visible anatomy. One key difference is that men have two orifices at the lower end of their bodies, while women have three. This fact is often overlooked, but it highlights how women are biologically more complex in certain ways.

Both men and women have an orifice for discarding stools, but the way their bodies handle urination and sexual functions differs significantly. In men, the same orifice—the urethra—serves both for urination and ejaculation, and this is located within the penis. 

In contrast, women have separate orifices for urination and sexual functions. The urethra, which leads to the bladder, is used solely for urination, while the vagina serves multiple purposes, including menstruation, sexual pleasure, and childbirth.

Additionally, the clitoris, which is the primary organ for sexual pleasure in women, is well-protected by two layers of skin called the labia majora and labia minora, providing a natural barrier against external elements like bacteria and viruses.

While it is true that women are more susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) compared to men, this is often seen in high-risk groups, such as sex workers who have multiple sexual partners.

Despite this, women’s internal sexual organs are generally well-protected, reducing the likelihood of physical injury. In contrast, the male penis, which is external and more exposed, is more prone to injury. For instance, a condition known as penile fracture can occur, particularly in young men during forceful intercourse, highlighting the vulnerability of male genitalia.

Genetic Reasons

Genetics indeed plays a significant role in the higher prevalence of certain illnesses in boys compared to girls. One of the key reasons for this difference lies in the genetic makeup of males and females. Males have one X chromosome and one Y chromosome, while females have two X chromosomes. The Y chromosome contains around 100 working genes, whereas the X chromosome has over 1,000 working genes. 

This difference means that X-linked genetic disorders are more commonly seen in males because they only have one X chromosome. If a male inherits a defective gene on the X chromosome, there is no second X chromosome to compensate for it, as there is in females, who carry two X chromosomes—one dominant and one recessive.

Autism and Other Disorders:

For example, autism is significantly more common in males, with a ratio of 5:1 in the U.S. (1 in 44 children are diagnosed with autism). Similarly, ADHD is more prevalent in boys, with a ratio of 4:1. Cerebral palsy also shows a higher incidence in males, with a ratio of 3:1. Even conditions like childhood asthma and learning disabilities are more frequent in boys, with ratios of 2:1 and 2:1, respectively. Down syndrome, one of the most well-known genetic disorders, also occurs slightly more often in males, with a ratio of 1.5:1.

Gender-Specific Health Outcomes:

Interestingly, while males are more prone to genetic and congenital disorders like autism, ADHD, and cerebral palsy, females tend to experience higher rates of mental health disorders later in life, such as depression, anxiety, and personality disorders. These conditions are often linked to environmental factors, hormonal changes, and lifestyle choices, which women may have more control over compared to genetic disorders.

In summary, males are more susceptible to illnesses that result from genetic defects or birth anomalies, where they have little control over the outcome.

In contrast, females are more likely to develop conditions related to mental health and lifestyle factors, which may be influenced by personal choices and environmental conditions. This distinction highlights the importance of understanding how genetic differences between genders contribute to overall health outcomes.

Emotional Reasons

Research consistently shows that women tend to have more close friendships and engage in more social gatherings compared to men, regardless of socioeconomic background.

Women are naturally vibrant social beings, often forming strong emotional bonds with others. In fact, 98% of women report having many close friends, while over 15% of men admit to not having even a single close friend.

This highlights a significant difference in social behavior, with men generally being more reserved, isolated, and less socially active than women.

This difference in social engagement has a direct impact on overall well-being and longevity. Studies suggest that strong social connections contribute to better mental and physical health, which may explain why women tend to live longer than men.

In the United States, for example, the average lifespan for men is 76 years, while for women, it is 81 years. This gap in life expectancy can be attributed, in part, to women's stronger social networks and their ability to maintain close, supportive relationships throughout their lives.

Women’s tendency to foster close friendships and participate in social activities not only brings joy and emotional fulfillment but also contributes to their overall health and longevity. Their ability to connect with others on a deep level helps them manage stress better and provides a support system during difficult times, which may be why they live longer healthier lives.

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